Saturday, October 4, 2025

Wild Woman

 wild woman,

what language do you dream in,

what fire taught you to whisper

in a way that makes the earth

hold its breath?


they call you too much

because they’ve never met a storm

that didn’t know its own name.


tell me:

what is it like to walk barefoot

on the edge of everything

they told you to fear?


you,

with your hair full of constellations

and your mouth full of questions

that make the world stutter.


you,

who turns the word “no”

into a dance,

a hymn,

a war cry.


you are the poem

they forgot to say

when they built their towers

and burned the woods

you call home.


wild woman,

you do not ask for permission.

your love is not gentle,

it is the hurricane that drowns doubt.

you kiss like you are planting forests

on tongues too used to silence.

you do not break,

you birth;

bodies,

hearts,

truths

that were never meant to be hidden.


and yet

your hands are soft

in ways they do not deserve,

your touch is a story

they can only read in the dark.


you are the kind of lover

who traces scars

like maps to freedom.

the kind of goddess

who sees every wound

as a seed

waiting to bloom.


wild woman,

tell me:

when they called you sinner,

did you laugh?

did you feel the soil beneath you

quake with joy

at their misunderstanding?

you were never broken,

only untamed,

and isn’t that the holiest thing

you can be?


when i hold you,

i do not try to contain you.

i only ask

to stand in the fire of your becoming,

to let your wildness

teach me how to love

without shackles,

how to see the divine

in the way you arch your back

and howl at the moon.


wild woman,

you are the hymn

every caged thing sings.

and i am the one who kneels,

not in submission,

but in reverence,

to love you

in ways that don’t ask you

to quiet down,

to stay still,

to soften the edges

of your ecstasy.


i want to love you

with hands open wide,

to let your chaos

rearrange me

until i am something

holy.


tell me:

how does it feel

to finally remember

that you were never meant

to be tamed?

Everything you ever wished for is on the other side of fear.

The chaos before the breakthrough

 is no coincidence. 

Life tests you hardest right before the shift, not to break you, but to build the version of you that’s capable of holding what you’ve been asking for.


It’s easy to stay committed when things are flowing, but what about when they’re not? That’s when it counts the most. The discomfort, the silence, the setbacks ~ they’re all invitations to rise. To prove to yourself that you’re not just dreaming about a new life, you’re willing to fight for it.


So if it feels heavier than usual, good. That means the old version of you is being stretched to make room for the new. Don’t quit now. The next level is waiting.

Thursday, October 2, 2025

The price is real. The reward is greater.

 Every step forward asks something of us.

Success may cost us envy and hate,

yet it leaves behind a legacy of impact.


Authenticity may strip away false approval,

yet it gifts us the freedom of living unmasked.


Being ourselves may scatter the crowd,

yet it gathers to us the rarest belonging.


Progress may stretch us through pain,

yet it carries us into transformation.

Fascism is cured by reading, And racism is cured by traveling. ~ Miguel de Unamuno

 Why do I read?

I just can't help myself.

I read to learn and to grow, to laugh

and to be motivated.

I read to understand things I've never

been exposed to.

I read when I'm crabby, when I've just

said monumentally dumb things to the

people I love.

I read for strength to help me when I

feel broken, discouraged, and afraid.

I read when I'm angry at the whole

world.

I read when everything is going right.

I read to find hope.

I read because I'm made up not just of

skin and bones, of sights, feelings,

and a deep need for chocolate, but I'm

also made up of words.

Words describe my thoughts and what's

hidden in my heart.

Words are alive--when I've found a

story that I love, I read it again and

again, like playing a favorite song

over and over.

Reading isn't passive--I enter the

story with the characters, breathe

their air, feel their frustrations,

scream at them to stop when they're

about to do something stupid, cry with

them, laugh with them.

Reading for me, is spending time with a

friend.

A book is a friend.

You can never have too many. 


~ Gary Paulsen

Shelf Life: Stories by the Book 

Wednesday, October 1, 2025

Honey At The Table

 It fills you with the soft

essence of vanished flowers, it becomes
a trickle sharp as a hair that you follow
from the honey pot over the table

and out the door and over the ground,
and all the while it thickens,

grows deeper and wilder, edged
with pine boughs and wet boulders,
pawprints of bobcat and bear, until

deep in the forest you
shuffle up some tree, you rip the bark,

you float into and swallow the dripping combs, bits of the tree, crushed bees ~ a taste composed of everything lost, in which everything lost is found.


~ Mary Oliver

Tuesday, September 30, 2025

Saturday, September 27, 2025

✨ The Myth of Me (Kathi’s Archetypal Journey)

 I carry within me the Innocent, the part of me that still believes in fresh starts. Each morning, each spring on my land, whispers to me: “It’s not too late to begin again.”


The Explorer in me refuses to live in cages. I wander ridge tops in Wisconsin and coastlines in Mexico, and I roam the landscapes of my own mind with the same hunger for wide horizons.


The Sage guides my steps inward. I seek truth beneath the surface—through healing, meditation, food as medicine, and the mysteries of the body and spirit. Wisdom is my compass.


But I am also the Hero, walking five miles a day, facing illness and setbacks, and still rising. My story is one of persistence, of pressing forward when the road is steep.


The Caregiver lives in my heart. Sky View Ridge is not just a project; it is sanctuary. I name cabins after my grand-nieces and nephews as acts of love, so others can rest in the shelter I’ve built.


The Creator is my hands and imagination. I shape raw land into pathways, dreams into wood and stone. What I envision, I bring into form, leaving beauty where there was none before.


The Ruler helps me bring order to it all—driveways, wells, cabins, systems. I am building not just structures, but a legacy, a place that will stand and serve beyond me.


The Magician reminds me that transformation is possible. I believe in change: land into sanctuary, illness into healing, limitation into strength. I see what could be and call it into being.


The Lover softens me. I pause for birdsong, for sunsets, for the joy of family and the tenderness of belonging. My passion is woven into everything I create.


The Rebel keeps me fiery. I refuse to accept “this is just how it is.” I break limits, challenge rules, and carve my own way forward.


The Jester keeps me light. Even when life feels heavy, I find the smile, the wit, the reminder not to take myself too seriously.


And always, the Everyperson grounds me. I may build something extraordinary, but I remain ordinary at the core—humble, connected, inviting others to belong in what I create.



✨ This is my myth: I am a weaver of visions, a seeker of wisdom, a builder of sanctuaries. I carry fire, tenderness, courage, and lightness. I am all the archetypes at once—dancing together in the story I call my life.